Monday 7 July 2008

A friend in need is a friend indeed?


1. When a friend takes the trouble all the way from somewhere else/in the midst of work, to bring you a cardigan/jacket because you are freezing, are you not touched?

2. When a friend sms you to show concern or just to say "hi" every now and then, do you find it such a bother that you don't even reply?

3. When a friend took the trouble to find/search painstakingly for a gift you need, do you snap at your friend and say "stop being so nice"?

4. When a friend buys you breakfast every now and then, did you think it's "too much"?

5. When a friend invites you to a concert, do you behave uneasy, or do you treat it as "no choice but go"? Did you/would you enjoy the concert?

6. When a friend buys flowers for you on a special occasion, do you say "thank you" or did you even notice the flowers?

7. When a friend makes efforts to make up after a tiff, do you patch up and carry on with life or do you say "we can never have the same friendship anymore"?

8. When a friend spent the last penny on you, would you be touched or did you know your friend is in dire straits in the first place?

9. When a friend calls you to share a gift for another friend, do you answer that phone call/s at all?

10. When a friend doesn't like the company you are keeping and nags/complains to you, do you throw your friend out of your life?

11. When a friend fights for you at work, do you appreciate or will you snap and say "told you not to!" ?

12. When you don't like the nasty words a friend used, do you hide yourself away and don't even bother to explain your behaviour?

13. When a friend notices your every likes and dislikes, do you resent your friend for that?

14. When a friend calls because you are sick, do you ask "why did you have to call?"

15. When a friend is sharing with you something personal, do you say "what's the point of repeating and repeating?"

16. When you know your friend is unhappy because of you, do you bother to ask why?

17. When you have forgiven a friend, would you have intentionally blocked your friend in MSN and everywhere else?

18. When a friend remembers every single detail of happy/bad times, do you forget all of that in a flash?

Are YOU the friend or are you the one who treats YOUR friend this way?

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