Sunday, 30 September 2012

当时的月亮

Sharing this song 当时的月亮 by Faye Wong.... for this full moon night. 
A couple of sentences in the lyrics taught impermanence ....

" 能夠呼吸的 就不能夠放在身旁...."
" 当时如果没有什么, 当时如果拥有什么, 又会怎样..."

Happy Mid-Autumn! 

Hot Spot Tom Yam.... yum yum yum....

Discovered a very nice place for Tom Yam soup. Next to Sim Lim Square over at Burlington Square, Hot Spot is a shop selling a wide variety of dishes, and it is a draw with lunch time crowd.  And the most popular item in the menu is definitely the Tom Yam soup. You could choose from the variety of noodles or rice to go with your Tom Yam soup. There are thin and thick vermicelli, Ee Mian, instant noodles, rice vermicelli, mee sua, ban mian, mee hoon kueh and all sorts of noodles that you are spoilt for choice. 
I chose my Tom Yam with instant noodles for the first time. The Tom Yam soup is so robust and thick. They called it the Northern Thai Tom Yam. A little milky and spicy, it is very good for cool and rainy weather (it happened  to be cool and breezy that day).  For $4.50 a bowl, they were pretty generous with the ingredients; big prawns, sotong, fish slices, tofu, tomatos, onions and I even sighted a tony piece of lime skin. It was such a satisfying lunch. It was no wonder there is perenially a long queue during lunch time. A value for money lunch with good quality Tom Yam. 


If you do not have time to queue, another dish you can order from the menu and be served, is the Hot Pot Lou Shu Fun Soup (silver needle noodles) or in Teochew we called it Mee Tai Bak. It was the first time I had Mee Tai Bak over a hot pot and I must say it tasted different from the usual served-in-a-bowl.  Throwing in a little red cut chilli into the soup, the broth is so refreshing and light, yet with the sweetness of the ingredients like prawns, minced meat, and mushroom. 

There are many other dishes you can choose from but be ready to queue at least 30 minutes for the Tom Yam and Fish Slice soup. I heard the Fish Head Steamboat is highly recommended too.  

Hot Spot Cafe Restaurant 
Burlington Square
175 Bencoolen Street #01-34
Singapore 189649.
Tel: 6238 7038


Wednesday, 26 September 2012

Singapore: Packed like sardines

Singapore is just an island. But the past time of Singaporeans is queuing. Anywhere, everywhere, crowds throng together for something, for anything.


At the launch of Iphone 5, queues were everywhere outside shops all over the island.
Also the recent F1 Grandprix in Singapore.
Singaporeans queue overnight before the launch of a new condominium development. 
Singaporeans throng to watch concerts.
Singaporeans go in droves to IT Show, PC Show and whatever-electronics show.
Foreign workers also co-exist with Singaporeans in droves everywhere.
Singaporeans love marathons; The Human Race, Sundown, Stanchart .... including the rat race....
Singaporeans love food fairs.... FREEBIES AND FREE FOOD!!!
National Day Parade is a crowd puller too.

Singaporeans Chinese and alike throng Chinatown during the Chinese New Year period.
Singaporeans are willing to queue a couple of hours for a popular stall.
Singaporeans love to make a trip across the causeway to Johor Bahru too, for cheap food, cheap petrol, and cheap groceries, despite the traffic and human jam.
Singaporeans love to attend opposition parties' rallies during the General Elections.
And as if the government still hasn't get the message from Singaporeans about public transport.......
.... PM Lee has recently said Singapore can afford six million people. 


Sir, I think Singapore island is going to sink soon....


Saturday, 22 September 2012

The lazy man's lunch

This is what you get when it was a Friday and there was nothing left in the fridge. I had wanted to make myself a simple lunch. So I soaked some Chinese mushrooms, and saute them with garlic, butter and olive oil. Then together with a bottle of creamy pasta sauce, I made mushroom carbonara pasta. Turned out not too bad, actually. 

Have a great weekend! 


Friday, 21 September 2012

A facade of memories

This was my primary school which had already been demolished many years ago, to make way for a new school building and a MRT station.  Somehow this building will remain etched in my mind forever as it brings back so much memories of my childhood.

Coming from one of the Methodist schools, I used to study in a Christian environment.  This main building had a row of classrooms on the ground floor and a hall on the second floor.  From primary through to secondary school, this hall brought so much memories of my school life.  

I had my first performance in primary one on stage in the hall during Christmas, playing one of the Three Kings (or Three Wise Men) who visited Jesus Christ after his birth and brought gifts of goldfrankincense and myrrh. We also had our weekly chapels in the hall. It was compulsory to attend chapel unless you are a Muslim. We had our school camp during secondary school and slept in this hall too (I remembered the group of us slept on floor of the stage and pretended to sleep when our teacher was still awake), and we had camp fires downstairs.  It was quite eerie sharing ghost stories in the night in such an old rundown building. I attended many prefect induction ceremonies over the years but I guess the most memorable one would be when I became the head prefect in Sec 4.  I remember going on my rounds around the school compound every morning and especially at the gate to make sure my prefects are catching late comers. Hehehe.... 

The little small building next to this old building had only 2 classrooms, and it was next to a church. Then we had a very old and small canteen (we called it "the tuckshop" in those days) with only 4 small stalls (but very delicious food). In those days, we indulged in colourful syrup drinks and snacks. We played "zero point" in the tiny basketball court, and joined the mosquitoes at the monkey climb ( I hated it) on the grass patch behind the tiny garden. Then once a week, we took a stroll to the nearby public swimming pool for our swimming lessons in the afternoon, and feasted on ice cream and snacks from the mama shop (provision shop run by Indians). We had so much fun. 

I remember quite a few teachers fondly from primary and secondary schools. I think they had influenced me positively in many ways, far more than the teachers and lecturers from JC and Uni.  They are Mrs Elsie Quahe, Mrs Diana Ng, Mrs Jane Ng, Miss Shirley Nair, Mrs Angeline Khoo, and 林老师. I will probably write about them another time - they made up my precious innocent childhood memories.  

Thursday, 20 September 2012

His shadow 他的身影


By chance, found this MTV, song delivered by my favourite idol, Tang Na 坣娜.  This is her tribute to the late Master Sheng Yen...... 他的身影 His Shadow.   A beautiful piece. 

Tuesday, 18 September 2012

A luminous welcome

Suddenly there is a pandamania in Singapore. 

 A cute adorable little panda from Chengdu, and no, I don't think this is Kai Kai or Jia Jia.

Singapore recently welcomed 2 giant pandas Kai Kai and Jia Jia from Chengdu, China. They are on a 10-year loan from the Chinese government to mark two decades of strong ties between China and Singapore.  It was the pandas' first time away from home, and extra care was taken to minimise stress for them.  A welcome ceremony was held at the JetQuay Terminal at Changi Airport, and the pair were brought to their new home at River Safari in a temperature-controlled vehicle.

The pandas will be in quarantine at a special den for a month where they will be closely monitored and given time to settle in before they move into their million-dollar home at Singapore's upcoming tourist attraction, the River Safari. The public can only catch the pandas in December.   

Talk about special treatment for our foreign talents.
This photo is taken from Singapore News Alternative, at the welcome ceremony by a few big shots, including our ex-President, Mr Nathan.  I wonder why they have to wear like this, similar to the CWO (Corrective Work Order) coat? In Singapore, offenders who were found littering in public places, may be punished by committing a few hours to picking up rubbish. Offenders are required to wear a bright orange jersey, which is to bring shame to them and hope they do not repeat their acts again.  :X

Then last week, Singapore welcomed the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, Prince William and Princess Kate to our sunny shores of the Lion City. My salute to the Prince who managed to still look dashing and charming in a coat throughout the entire visit. 

There was much hooha about their "tai ji" wayang visit to old Queenstown. Responding to the online criticism, MP Indranee Rajah (wearing lime green) has acknowledged that the scenes at Queenstown put up by the establishment for the visit of Prince William and Princess Kate were indeed staged. It was meant to showcase HDB living as well as the various cultural and community activities of Singapore. Ms Indranee emphasized, “It was not to suggest that these activities take place at 3pm everyday..…”. 


Saw this photo from Facebook. The future King and Queen of England met up with our most "royal" familee in Singapore too, although it seemed that only Mrs Lee's lime green garb received more attention. 

Our welcome committee was mobilised again, according to mrbrown (hilarious post) to welcome Prince William and Princess Kate. What a luminous welcome indeed.

By the way, is lime green in fashion? 

Sunday, 16 September 2012

Reflect, for what it's worth

Recently I saw many people around me suddenly being sick and facing some health obstacles. Faced with so many bad news can really affect our own state of mind, and I feel very deeply for them yet helpless that I am unable to help much.

A Dharma sister is lying in hospital at the brink of death right now, due to haemorrhage. Within a short span of a week, she had headache, found to have a blood clot in her brain, gone for an operation, and is in coma. Now she is on life support system.  The doctor says the chances of survival are slim. She is only 40 years old. So many prayers are being conducted right now. Her husband is staying strong and hopes that his wife can go to Pureland with the gurus' blessings. May she have a good rebirth when the time comes. 

A colleague's parents also encounter some obstacles relating to health in recent weeks. Another friend's parent is diagnosed with cancer too. I understand their feelings well because my own father went through the same thing in his 50s. Fortunately for my father, his cancer is now in remission. We always feel sad when we hear someone we know experiencing some serious illness. But it really hits home especially when the ones closest to us encounter the same situation. Recently a loved one is also diagnosed with a condition which can be potentially life threatening. While awaiting the doctor's findings and advice, I am also arranging pujas to be conducted for my loved one.

In order to practise the Dharma, we attend teachings which is crucial in helping us plant the seed to develop wisdom, extinguish our delusions and ignorance. But at the same time, as I mentioned many times before, attending pujas is equally important as different pujas help us clear different types of obstacles and negative karma which we have accumulated since beginningless times. When sudden sickness ripens, or when we encounter various obstacles, we should seek to eradicate these imminent problems first, for without a healthy body and a clear state of mind, how can we focus on teachings? Without clearing the dirt stuck at the bottom of a bottle, no matter how much clean water we pour in, the water inside the bottle will still be dirty. Pujas and teachings work hand in hand.

His Holiness Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche says, "Never forget how swiftly this life will be over, like a flash of summer lightning or the wave of a hand. Now that you have the opportunity to practice dharma, do not waste a single moment on anything else."


A phrase in the Meditation of the Stages of the Path (Lamrim) states....
"For the one time I have found this excellent body which gives me freedom. Please give me your blessings so that I may understand how difficult it is to find it and how very useful it is. And can develop an inner attitude which is focused without interruption, day and night, on that which is essential. The body and life are as transient as water bubbles. Because they pass away so quickly please give me your blessing so that I may be reminded of death and may gain unshakeable certainty about the fact that after my death the effect of positive and negative actions follows as the body is followed by its shadows. May I always bear in mind that I must avoid even the smallest fault and put all positive motivation into action."

Indeed, life is impermanent and we do not know when we will be robbed of our life. It can happen in a flash of lightning. Only when we realise the fragility of life that we can truly treasure what we have in this lifetime. The human life is precious because we are able to liberate ourselves in this human body, through practice and understanding and realising the teachings. A dog or cat or hungry ghost can't. The ripening of karma determines where we go next, and it may not necessarily be as a human or any of the higher realms. We cannot guarantee we would be reborn as a human in the next life. Hence it is important to treasure this life.... to practice and to benefit others, while we're still alive.

Wednesday, 12 September 2012

A momentous farewell at the airport


I can't believe I'm still so very busy even though Kangyur Rinpoche has already gone back to Dharamsala. Life is suddenly in a whirlwind at this age, exactly like what someone told me long ago that it would be so.

Anyway my laptop broke down for the past week and it's still down, no thanks to a Singtel's outage breakdown and a laggy laptop. I'm now blogging from the mobile phone. So I guess I can only manage snippets of posts at the moment.

Our dearest Healing Lama is now back in Dharamsala. About 400 people were at the airport last weekend to give our dearest teacher a grand send off. It was such a momentous one hour with Rinpoche. The queue was permanently long from Row 2 to Row 7 of the check in counters for about one hour! It was a touching sight to see everyone receiving blessings from Rinpoche. He was pleasantly surprised and in high spirits as he blessed each and everyone, touching their heads, faces, and holding their hands. Rinpoche said he was very happy and that he would continue to pray for us even if he was back in Dharamsala.

I saw Rinpoche spent extra time blessing and healing an elderly lady. He blew onto her face as well as her legs and chanted prayers. He did the same for a couple of special children by holding onto their heads and blowing onto them. A man offered Rinpoche a big offering, saying it was from his elderly mother who was unable to be there. Rinpoche was visibly touched and dedicated prayers for the man's mother.

I'm so pleased that so many thousands of people have planted this special seed of affinity with Kangyur Rinpoche. Such is the greatness, compassion and kindness of the Healing Lama. May Kangyur Rinpoche live long and may we see him again and again in all our lifetimes. See you again soon, Rinpoche!

(Photos by Dharma brother, Lobsang Garden).

Thursday, 6 September 2012

Our Healing Guru, Kangyur Rinpoche and all those who made it happened

I chuckled as I was doing up this collage of my friends and their photos taken with our dearest guru, the Healing Lama Kangyur Rinpoche.  As I see friends posting photos in Facebook and even Whatsapp, each taken with Rinpoche, I feel so so happy. We are indeed very fortunate and blessed by his visit, his healing, his presence and compassion. Everywhere Rinpoche went, many bowed down in deep respect.

It has been a glorious, blissful and auspicious month of August when Rinpoche is in Singapore.  It has been a very busy month for many of us and there were many occasions, besides the Grand Puja, where all were graced by the holy presence of our dearest guru. Everyone made this possible.... Rinpoche, all the 22 monks of Gaden Shartse Monastery, the sponsors, the volunteers and everyone, anyone who attended the Grand Healing Puja, the Fire Puja, the 10th Anniversary Dinner, the Borobudur trip, the Thank You Dinner, and all the in-house pujas, all have been blessed by Kangyur Rinpoche, the Buddhas and the protectors etc. It was a spectacular month where we witnessed some miraculous auspicious signs.  Let's see if I have time at a later date to blog more about Rinpoche's visit in detail. 

Although it was sheer hard work, full of sweat, everyone in Gaden Shartse Dro-Phen Ling played an important part in the success of every single event. I feel proud of every devotee who made the effort to be there, in a big way or in their little humble ways. 

For the volunteers, it was again another successful merit-multiplying joyous occasion. From my observation, there is something special about this group, very unlike other groups I have seen. There is a strong sense of unity and team work, where almost everyone knows everyone, and where most volunteers know what they are doing. Although there were times of chaos, especially managing the huge crowds of 2000+, especially when the devotees went on stage in throngs to be blessed by Rinpoche, there were a couple of testy moments indeed. Volunteers had to be quick to guide each devotee in a fast yet orderly manner. 

As a rule of thumb, we always have to think of Rinpoche's well-being, and could not possibly let him to be too tired. Holding the torma or his mala beads, he had to tap on each and everyone's head to bless them, all 2000+ in every session daily.  The organiser and volunteers had to make sure Rinpoche is well taken care of. Devotees were advised not to linger too long while receiving Rinpoche's blessings. And for those who wanted to cut queue, the volunteers had to ask them in a polite manner not to. If they were tired of waiting and wanted to go home fast, imagine and spare a thought for 92-year-old Rinpoche who had to conduct the healing sessions for us, using his energy and strength, and then blessing each of the 2000 crowd. I think we could afford to reach home a little later. 

Although a few volunteers were shoved or scolded by devotees, they still tried their best to explain to the devotees. If each and every devotee had taken their own sweet time to seek blessings and offer karta to Rinpoche, the session would have lasted the entire night. So I hope devotees could understand the volunteers' intentions. We just did not want Rinpoche to be exhausted and tired out. Overall, DPL received many accolades, praises and encouraging words from the devotees for having completed yet a very well organised event, despite the humongous crowds. Most devotees were very supportive and encouraging. Thank you very much!

Our final gathering while Kangyur Rinpoche is still here was at the Thank You dinner for volunteers and sponsors over the past weekend. After the dinner, Rinpoche gave us a touching surprise.  Besides thanking the sponsors and volunteers, Rinpoche wanted to give us a gift.  Rinpoche said he does not own any assets or great wealth. However, he wanted to give us each a crystal bead from his mala to some long time volunteers and sponsors. This crystal mala followed Rinpoche since he was in Tibet to India. Everyday Rinpoche would chant and recite the short and long mantras of Avalokiteshvara (Guan Yin), and blow onto this string of mala beads. Rinpoche wanted to remove the mala string and give each of us a crystal bead. This gift is so so so precious as it is imbued with Rinpoche's blessings and wonderful energy. I am very touched to receive this gift from the Great Healing Lama himself. To me this is even more precious than any asset, money or any branded item. It is an elixir of life. Thank you, Rinpoche!! _/|\_

As Dro-Phen Ling just celebrated its 10th year anniversary, I'll do my little personal tribute here through my blog. I am ever so grateful to have known so many great gurus in DPL; the late most venerable Lati Rinpoche, His Holiness Dagyab Rinpoche, His Holiness 101st Gaden Tripa Rinpoche, Khensur Rinpoche Sonam Pasang, and of course, the Great Healing Lama, Kangyur Rinpoche. Plus so many learned Geshes from Gaden Shartse Monastery who came to teach the Dharma. Without the blessings of my gurus, I would not have created the affinity to get to know DPL and to attend so many precious teachings and pujas. Through DPL, I have made so many Dharma friends and many good practitioners whom I can learn from. Without DPL, I would not have wanted to volunteer and realise the importance of creating merits in Dharma events. Without DPL, I would not have known how to clear my obstacles or know how to handle the ripening of bad karma. Most importantly, the gurus and Buddha Dharma taught me what I want to achieve, not just in this lifetime, but what I want to be in future lifetimes. 

Another person who made DPL a success is Mama Karen, the President of Gaden Shartse Dro-Phen Ling. For so many years she is the one responsible for organising so many grand pujas for the public, inviting many great masters to benefit so many people who needed help, the sick, the poor, the depressed, the mentally disturbed, anyone who needed help.... whether through teachings or pujas. Without her, many precious Dharma activities would not have been possible, and it would be impossible for so many of us, struggling practitioners, to purify our obstacles and to gain mountains of merits. So many have benefited from the pujas and teachings under the guidance of all our gurus and Mama Karen. Through her, many came to know and practice the Dharma. Besides benefiting the general public, Mama Karen is also instrumental in helping the many thousands monks in Gaden Shartse Monastery and their livelihood. All these, in her humble words, were "all because of my guru, Lati Rinpoche". It is her pure intentions to serve and to fulfil the wishes/instructions of her guru, our precious late spiritual advisor, dearest Lati Rinpoche. Thank you to Mama Karen who made it possible to create the seed of affinity with DPL and all the gurus. 

The name "Dro-Phen Ling" was bestowed by His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama, which means "a place to benefit all beings". May Dro-Phen Ling continue to prosper in the Dharma and to benefit all beings for many many more years to come!   


Our dearest Kangyur Rinpoche is flying home to India this coming Saturday and I really cannot bear to see him go. This is because this will be his final trip to Singapore due to his old age. We know Rinpoche's intentions, and we are grateful to Rinpoche for agreeing to visit Singapore this time. We rejoice in everyone's merits who has created the affinity with Rinpoche. Thank you for your blessing, dearest Kangyur Rinpoche! May you live long and may I meet you again and again.

Join us in giving our dearest Healing Lama a grand send off at the airport this Saturday 8 Sept 2012 via SQ408, flight departure time 7:05pm at Terminal 2 in the evening. However, we are anticipating a big crowd, it is suggested all those who wish to send Rinpoche off meet at 5pm or slightly earlier. 


Tuesday, 4 September 2012

A little celebration in Little India

We had an earlier celebration for one of my best friends over the past weekend. Being rather adventurous, the birthday girl requested that we dine at an Indian restaurant this time and everyone must come dressed in Indian garb too. This was quite a challenge for a couple of friends because, firstly, they do not fancy indian food, and secondly, they do not have anything Indian in their wardrobe, and thirdly, they hardly step into Little India. For me it was no problem because I love anything Indian (almost!).

We decided on Apolo Banana Leaf Restaurant at Race Course Road, just because we had visited this restaurant together umpteen years ago.  We had wanted to relive the earlier memories.  This was my share on a banana leaf - naan with an assortment of dishes and gravies! 

We had curry fish head, tandoori chicken, navratna khorma, palak paneer, lamb etc.... It did not look a lot but it was quite filling for 5 of us.

My buddy for the longest time, and so were the rest. Happy birthday to her!! May we all be friends forever.  I am quite thankful for them as we have seen each other through our individual ups and downs, and I am very sure they would stand by me through the good times and definitely through my bad times. For that day, I think we all passed with the Indian theme party. It was a success. Now we've already planned our next theme for the next birthday celebration.

Before our late lunch, I took the opportunity to snap a few shots of Little India. I am always excited when I visit Little India, because there is so much life and a mesmerising different culture - I love the sense of vibrancy and interesting stuff we see along the streets and shops.
Hope you enjoyed my Little India snapshots. What a wonderful weekend spent with a little celebration with closest friends.  I am looking forward to our next birthday gathering and a different theme. Very happening, eh?


Sunday, 2 September 2012

Favourite breakfast - Congee

I love congee from my neighbourhood hawker centre. I usually order pork and century egg congee. They come with slices of pork, liver, minced pork balls, slices of century egg, youtiao (fried flour sticks), and a runny egg, and some fried shallots. I like to have my congee on weekend mornings or whenever the craving strikes, especially when the weather is cool and wet.

What's your favourite breakfast?

Saturday, 1 September 2012

Break loose, Breadtalk

Breadtalk Shanghai
A former classmate of mine is based in Shanghai. Being Singaporean, she buys bread from Breadtalk, a Singaporean bakery with a branch in Shanghai almost everyday. Currently Breadtalk has 123 shops in China. 

My friend related her experience in Facebook recently.... 

She was number 2 in the queue waiting to pay. As usual, there were a lot of people cutting queue. 

When it was her turn, this was her conversation with the cashier: 

Friend: 请问,不需要排队付钱吧? Excuse me, don't we need to queue? 

Cashier: 要的! YES! 

Friend: 那你们为什么一直服务插队的人?Why do you service those who cut queue first?

Cashier: 她们要插队我能怎样?There is nothing I can do! 

Friend: 你应该维持次序! You can help with maintaining order! 

Cashier: 来我们这里买东西的就是素质差!Those who buy from us are uncivilized people!

My friend was utterly pissed and disgusted especially since Breadtalk is a Singaporean brand name. She asked since she purchases from Breadtalk almost every other day, if she was also considered one of those "uncivilised people" which the Breadtalk staff has rudely classify its customers as. 

By the way, my friend is going to boycott Breadtalk China from now on. I hope Mr George Quek, the big boss of Breadtalk, will look into this matter.  

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